Thread:Per Ankh/@comment-30644608-20170317145937/@comment-1674153-20170317215522

Sarah, with all due respect, when we point out these things, we are not attacking you, not blaming you, and not faulting you. I, and I only speak for myself here and the others are free to disagree with me, think that when you use language like "Not my fault" that you think you need to defend yourself against us, which is hurtful. And this is not the only time that you have implied that with your language choices. I would appreciate it if you could respect us enough to know and intone in your responses that we aren't attempting to make you look bad when we say "No" or "What about..." or "Hey, actually..."